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“Imagine… If you had suddenly learned that the people and the places and the moments most important to you were not gone, not dead, but worse— had never been.”

I was in LA at Imagine Entertainment. It’s Brian Grazer’s studio.

He produced “A Beautiful Mind,” “8 Mile”, a bunch of Jim Carrey movies. He’s worked with Eddie Murphy and produced my favorite TV series, “Arrested Development.”

“I bought the book ‘A Beautiful Mind‘ with the thematic intention of trying to make a movie that would help de-stigmatize mental disability,” he said.

So he created an alternate reality. And he’s done this in his own life.

“You see, the nightmare of schizophrenia is not knowing what’s true,” the psychiatrist says in “A Beautiful Mind.” He was talking to John Nash’s wife as she watched her husband get electroshock therapy.

She loved a schizophrenic man. A brilliant man.

She let me him keep his delusions.

They weren’t real. But what’s the harm?

Nothing. Unless you almost drown your baby.

He won the Nobel Prize.

And I cried.

His mind brought him delusions but it also brought him love.

Between two realities, he chose himself.

He lived in his contradictions. Between what’s real and what’s imaginary.

Between health and illness. That’s where he found his original idea.

Some of me is jealous. Some of me feels sad. Some of me ran out of things to say.

I don’t try to be everything I am.

So I become the rest of me. The side that practices difficult gratitude and improves just 1% a day. The part of me that listens. And flies to LA to be in an alternate reality.

Brian Grazer says, “Curiosity propels storytelling. All stories, incidentally, need propulsion. It not only creates the story, but it gives life to energy. And energy is what stories need.”

It’s what life needs. Or at least, my life.

Brian also produced “Apollo 13,” another one of my favorite movies. He used his curiosity muscle to reframe the story.

“People think it’s about space. They thought it was about aerodynamics,” he says. “To me, it was only about human resourcefulness.”

“Perspective is everything,” Brian said. “It’s everything.”

His perspective comes from curiosity. Which he wrote about in his #1 New York Times bestseller, “A Curious Mind: The Secret to a Bigger Life.”

I don’t know where my curiosity will lead me.

But I can only hope it helps in your reality.

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Also mentioned:

  • Edward Teller – the Nobel Prize winning physicist who worked on the atomic bomb
  • Isaac Asimov – part of the “big three.” He’s known as one of the best science fiction writers of the 20th century