Kindness and the Sexual Mating of Ideas

In the early 90s I loved the Richard Linklater movie, “Slackers”. First the camera would follow one guy along who was basically doing nothing, then follow the next guy or girl that the first guy spoke to, and so on, never going back to a prior character. It created this very visceral emotional effect of “slacking off”. So the medium, as they say, was the message. Because there was no other message: the movie was plotless and none of the characters did anything.

Some organization called “life vest” mated the Slackers shooting concept with a Matisyahu song and then mated that with the 4000 year old concept that if people were simply kind to each other, the world would be a better place.

I posted this on my Facebook blog page and a reader made the comment that the danger is living in a fairy tale land since, in general, people are not kind. This is true. But my view is totally selfish. I like being kind. Because I know when I Give, I Receive. It happens all the time that way. Plus I feel good. Just like when I watch the below video that is the result of this vigorous sexual mating activity among ideas.

Below the video I have some quotes on kindness that I like:


Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.

Henry James

Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind.

The Dalai Lama

If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.

Mother Theresa

Smile at each other, smile at your wife, smile at your husband, smile at your children, smile at each other — it doesn’t matter who it is — and that will help you to grow up in greater love for each other.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

You cannot do a kindness too soon because you never know how soon it will be too late.

Lao Tzu

Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.


So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them

And, if you haven’t read it yet, I highly recommend:

10 Things to Do When They Don’t Call Back”



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