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You can’t make everyone happy. Really you can’t make anyone happy. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you can let go of control, shame, or whatever your parents did to you, and start having sex. Or happiness. Whatever you’re searching for. I’ll explain. My guest today, a seven-time New York Times best-selling author, Neil […]

You know why I wrote Choose Yourself. But you don’t know how you got here. How did you get here – on my email list, Facebook page, Twitter? Do you want to know why you’re following me? I’m going to tell you. I’ll tell you my secrets to building an email list, a customer base, […]

I know a miracle worker. He’s an entrepreneur, marketing man, and film producer who gets companies like HP to say, “yes” to him. You can learn a lot from him. I did. One thing I learned is there’s more to choosing yourself. There’s a part two. Part one is when you see things in your […]

You can have power, but it comes with a lot of bullshit. When Spider-Man’s Uncle Ben said, “With great power comes great responsibility,” he was trying to say that power comes with a lot of BS. It’s a good warning. We want all of the power and none of the bullshit. And then you hear […]

It won’t be the idea that causes you to quit… it’s fear. It’s the big idea that stops us—the idea of being a Google or a Facebook, a New York Times best-selling author, a guru, a YouTube sensation, a Mark Cuban or Kevin O’Leary. Sometimes, it seems easier to forget you even had the idea […]

Everyone I’ve ever dated (before my second marriage) was just practice. Telling my second grade crush I was in love with her and getting laughed at – practice. Posing as a psychic on Craigslist to meet women – practice. I could have chosen not to do those things. I could have been too embarrassed or said I […]

If she told me to jump off a bridge, I just might do it. She was the only friend who would tell me anything and I would do anything for her. I think I love her. Growing up, I wanted to know everything—sex, bullying, whether I was normal or not. I was curious—confused really. Kids […]